Dating Without the Seduction Myths

The brilliance of this scam is that these open minded guys mix together various theories loosely based on social sciences, and spice it up with some funny remarks. So the upshot is not as boring as articles in science magazines or websites. I am pretty sure that some of the PUAs indeed believe in what they say. Not all of them are pulling off a scam.
Their techniques have never been proven effective in by scientific experiment. This fact should ring the bell.

Seduction techniques are just like placebo. Your sole belief in your success actually helps you. Here is the true process going on when a nerdy seduction apprentice picks up a hot chick:
You see this nerd has never believed in himself, neither have any of his friends. How could this average looking guy pick up a cutie? There must be money involved. On the flip side the guy is not a dotcom millionaire. It must have been some secret powerful techniques he used. She couldn't simply fall for this guy the way he actually is – according to him and all other dudes who witnessed this "phenomenon".

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The Placebo Effect of Seduction

This nerd has never made any attempts to meet women. He has never socialized because he didn't believe in himself. So when he finally embarked on this new seduction adventure… he failed. Online dating is a numbers game, and it is highly unlikely that after the first attempts he will meet a "matching" female. That's where most nerds quit… unless, they are motivated by some powerful ideology. That's what seduction really is – some kind of macho religion. The seduction guru played by Tom Cruise in the movie "Magnolia" (some say inspired by Ross Jeffries) who kept repeating "respect the cock" illustrates it well. People possessed by ideologies can handle a lot.

Our nerd believed in this ultimate masculine dream he bought for 9,99 bucks so much, that he didn't mind all the rejections. The pickup gurus coached him so he could handle it. He kept trying again and again. Finally, he approached a pretty girl who considered him "her type." That was good enough for her. She even had a good time hearing his kinda weird memorized lines. She could tolerate that as long as he didn't disrespect her. He succeeded! By that time he was already brainwashed. He seduced that girl. There is no way he could have picked her up by being "himself", without these powerful patterns.

Why Rejection Is Built In

Well actually…yes he could. If he had approached all those women with the phrase "Hi, I am Phil. How it's going?", the results would be the same. The only problem is that after the 120th time you say "Hi, I am…" and get rejected, you might get bored of it. Meanwhile the world of patterns, anchors, mind control, and status building awaits. The bottom line is that from that cute girl's perspective it doesn't matter at all!

Phil was warned that he will be rejected. The playas even teach their students mantras like "the player who gets rejected the most is the player who leaves with the most numbers!"Isn't that strange? Techniques that are supposed to allow you to conquer ANY woman also prepare you to … lots of rejection! Before you point out "well it's just in case… just for the rookies" – I will respond: yep, but still they should make a note, that after you master these techniques, you won't have to worry about rejection. But no. Almost every school of seduction discusses the rejection issue, which rationally should not be an issue at all! Provided their techniques do work.

A Realistic Alternative

After all those years of lack of love life our nerdy hero is content with his eventual success so he is not be able to poke the giant holes in the seduction theories. He will never notice the true process going on, and I don't blame him. After all, why fix something that is working? Why defy the ideas that led him to the only hot girl in his life? Well maybe… not to spend another 998 dollars for the next seminar and hours of wasted time?

Luckily there is another option for Phil. I am endorsing a realistic approach to picking up women. Leave the alpha über male ideology, and use some common sense.

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